Girl vs Boy

For the past 8 1/2 months, people have been speculating on the gender of our child. The decision to not find out the sex beforehand was probably one of the best ones we have ever made. It is sooo much fun to hear people's guesses, and it has built up tremendous anticipation for Jonas and I. Interestingly, for the first half of my pregnancy, everybody was guessing we would have a girl. Now for the last half of my pregnancy, and more so recently the last couple of months, everybody is saying we will be having a boy. I think much of this is going by the way I am carrying, cravings and in general, just a lot of old wive's tales. When we first got pregnant, Jonas and I both had a very strong instinct of what we think the baby will be. But now, we are extremely uncertain and our minds change almost daily.

It goes without saying that we would welcome either one, a little boy or a little girl with open arms. When I think of us having a little girl, I picture her to have strong opinions, with a mixture of both of our personalities. When I think of a little boy, I picture him to be exactly like Jonas with his sweet nature, and sensitivity. In terms of appearance, I am very curious as to who the baby will look like more. But for some reason, I think our baby will tend to have more of the Ng genes physically than the Lee side. And that would be more than alright with me, as I would love to have a child that will look like their father.